Well , i decided to get back to 1.2.0.18 even whith no alsa support. But after read a few docs on alsa lists , i decided to make a try with 1.2.0.18 + aoss and for my surprise it is working great. At least until the 1.3 final version be released , this make 1.2.0.18 much better than 1.3.
To help people make this work , these are the steps i did.
i just upgraded to alsa-lib and alsa-tools , to 1.0.10 , i am using kernel 2.6.17.
You do not need asound.conf or ~/.asound since alsa >= 1.0.10 do dmix by default.
so i run aoss skype and it works like a charm