happens everytime, only called two people both running windows version, probably not yet upgraded to the 1.0 for windows, I have tried both 0.90.0.6 and 0.90.0.14

here's some debug
*** INCOMING CALL *** 101
Engine::customEvent invoked. curState is 3
UI: Engine::addBuddy handle is 1
UI: incoming call from zedcore_henry accept is 1 3 1 (1)
UI: CallManager: GetCall: success
MainForm: newCallTab
UI: PLAY_SUCCESS
Sky: Call: getStatus ringing
SingleCallManager: SingleCallManager
Engine: getUser() : zedcore_henry
UI: User::getAvatar no avatar, returning default avatar image
Sky: Call: getStatus ringing
zedcore_henry destroy
UI: MainForm::tabWidget_currentChanged
UI: MainForm::tabWidget_currentChanged
ctw addr: 874a930
ctw calltab index 3
tabWidget addr 858f888
WidgetCallTab::init
WidgetCallTab: updateTabIcon: STATE 0
IncomingCallTab::init
Call: OnChange: key 266
Call: OnChange: CALL_CONF_PARTICIPANTS
IncomingCallTab: updateConfItems
IncomingCallTab: updateConfItems: change to RemoteHost
MyGridLayout: widget appended
Sky: Call: getStatus ringing
UI: Engine::getProfileAvatar
UI: Engine::getProfileAvatar loading avatar
UI: Engine::getProfileAvatar loaded successfully
Sky: Call: getStatus ringing
GetPartDisp Henry
Sky: Call: getStatus inprogress
IncomingCallTab: updateConfItems 1 zedcore_gary Gary Stimson In progress
MyGridLayout: widget appended
Engine: getUser() : zedcore_gary
UI: User::getAvatar no avatar, returning default avatar image
Sky: Call: getStatus inprogress
zedcore_gary destroy
GetPartDisp Henry
RemoteParticipantManager: trayToKill: dont kill zedcore_gary
IncomingCallTab: callBtnClicked()
Call: OnChange: key 245
ItemManager: updateCallStatus
Sky: Call: getStatus inprogress
ItemManager: call timer started
updateMainFormWidgets
Sky: Call: getStatus inprogress
Call: OnChange: key 261
Call: OnChange: CALL_DURATION
Call: OnChange: key 245
ItemManager: updateCallStatus
Sky: Call: getStatus finished
CallManager: callFinalize
WidgetCallListTab: newCallFinished
Engine: getUser() : zedcore_henry
zedcore_henry destroy
UsersCombo: insertCall
Engine: getUser() : zedcore_henry
UserCombo: item not Added: zedcore_henry
zedcore_henry destroy