QUOTE(innocent.brown.eyes @ Fri May 25 2007, 21:02) [snapback]399413[/snapback]
hi my names vicky .
This is my story of how i met my boyfriend now of 3 months..............................
Hello My Love,
YES I am the lucky lad who Vicky is referring to, well least I hope I am.
Joking aside;We did meet up in Skypecasts a few months ago and Love is definitely in the air.
Whenever anyone told me that they had met someone online I always politely changed the subject but surely the look of horror on my face and the snigger gave away what I was thinking.
"Are you MAD? He/ She must be desperate, picking up some pervy Rabbit Boiling Psychopath.. I can't believe I am actually talking to this looser. I need to make an excuse to leave, hmm, I forgot to water the plants before I came out this morning, must dash, Bye or My pet budgie is ill and needs me, sorry, Bye."
Again Joking aside;I was just as skeptical as the next person and I suppose with good reason. We have all heard stories about people being lured to a terrible rendezvous online, pedo's freaks and just plain dangerous individuals to use the internet too believe it or not. Then there is the average ways of meeting people implanted into our psyche.
Bars, Restaurants, Clubs, Work, through friends, but always in person and always offline to if you too are skeptical I can understand why.
Vicky rightly mentioned there being disadvantages to meeting online.
We have never actually met, I have not been fortunate enough to be held by Vicky, I have not been able to run my fingers through her beautiful long hair and I can't give her a kiss good night.
YET.
The advantages far out way the disadvantages.Meeting on Skype has saved us both a fortune for a start. Thousands of hours on a phone would not be pretty when the bill came, considering the fact that the calls would be International.
When we do meet there is no travel time involved so we get longer together. We get to see each other via the cams. We can enjoy our Music together, view the same web pages together, share files, tunes, poetry or whatever we want. Lately we have even been watching movies together, both sat at our PC with our web cams and audio through Skype and to us it is the next best thing to sitting together on the sofa watching a Movie.
I think the biggest advantage to meeting up online is what we can't do.
Allow me to explain;
We have no choice but to communicate effectively. Nothing to get in the way, noisy bars, friends coming along, getting stuck in traffic, nerves, finances.
We can do much more than talk, but the foundation of our relationship is communication.
I know more about Vicky than I could ever put into words and the more I know the more I am sure Vicky is the one for me.
Vicky sorry for comparing, but when I compare this relationship with other relationships I have had in the past it is obvious to me that we have been able to achieve far more in far less time, months less and what we have achieved together is a lot more stable too.
In short meeting Vicky is the best thing that has happened to me for a very long time. We have plans for the future and all I want to do is get on with turning them into reality. Meeting online might seem unconventional, but falling in Love is the most natural thing in the world.
It is unlikely we would have even met was it not for Skype and the Skypecasts so obviously we both think Skype is amazing, it has clearly made our lives richer and more exciting.MattG - britishnproud