finnally after 4 hours of banging with the head in the table lol
ok i got it working:P sort of lol
first you need to set the alsamixer so it initializes the mic (so other people can ear you:P). then you need to set the right dsp in skype (provided that you have the right usb audio drivers (under the ALSA branch) and that it detects it.
so the trick is to install dbus 0.22 or 0.23.
i had gentoo on my side to do this...
unmerge dbus
- check in /etc/make.conf if you have "dbus" in the use flags and re-emerge python -> maybe it's necessary.. can't confirm
emerge /usr/portage/sys-apps/dbus/dbus-0.23.4-r1.ebuild
(this isn't the right way to emerge this version but i dont care i wanted to install this brute force

)
skypemate run.. but i couldn't control the phone. so trash with it.
enter
https://savannah.nongnu.org/projects/usbb2k-api/
it's a open source driver for the device... it's a little tricky but i got it working.. sorta lol
so now i have dbus 0.23 installed and then i checked out the source of usbb2k
export CVS_RSH="ssh"
cvs -z3 -d:pserver:anonymous@cvs.savannah.nongnu.org:/sources/usbb2k-api co usbb2k-api
cd usbb2k-api
./autogen.sh
./configure
make
(at this point it will compile and hopefully no errors)
cd src
sudo ./usbb2k_api
(yes sudo or do "su -" and the run it. it must be run by root...)
now the testing part... tail /var/log/messages should say something like
usbb2k_api[5355]: usbb2k init ok
so now you go to the tools directory...
cd ..
cd tools
sudo ./api_connect /tmp/usbb2k.sock
then you should have a prompt... watch out for that var/log/message
do fun stuff like
SWITCH USB
RING 1
and see if the phone rings
answering and putting the phone off the hook produces messages also.
if you made it this far, you can now try the tricky part...
they dont support skype, but it's possible if you have the right script... i have found one in the dev-list
http://lists.gnu.org/archive/html/usbb2k-a...0/msg00000.html
and it run! i've found a little bug or something.. the thing worked (the script is very crude but does the job sort of

) but it didn't rang! i watched that the communication from the pythong script was truncating 1char! so i edited the python script and searched for the line that said
self.s.send("RING 1")
and added an extra "0" in there.. making self.s.send("RING 10")
the thing that was transmitted was in fact RING 1 so the phone now rings and it's working OK.. sorta
it won't make calls nor any other advanced stuff, only accept & ring. i edited the script to make "predefined calls" in the event of 1 keypress of the phone.
anyway hope i didn't make a big mess out of it:p
still, i would like complete support of the thing.. but it's better than nothing
(edit: i couldn't post this cause i was writting the phrase " cd .. / tools " (with the .. besides the / and the tools) and it gave me internal server error. what gives? lol)