1. what does PM me, mean?
2. what is "pinned" and the signification of the Red flag or lock?.
3. My problem is, although I have set my preferences to “Private” as I do not want anyone but friends contacting me, and I get lots of unsolicited requests from people who I do not want contacting me.
How do these people see me?? and how can I stop them contacting me??
1. PM = Personal Message.
If you wish to send someone a message but don't wish to publish it on the public Forum click on their name >> Send Message.
2. ''Pinned'' means that a message of some significance and designed to be of assistance to users has been pinned to the top of the relevant Forum section by a Moderator.
[You can see examples which I and other Moderators have pinned to this Forum section.]
Sometimes we will lock a notice which prevents anyone from adding posts to it.
The same applies if we lock a thread.
3. You can't prevent other users from contacting you initially.
[They may be people you wish to add to your contact list.]
If they are not, you can block them from contacting you again.
p.s. If you have an issue with which you require assistance please post it on the relevant Forum section e.g. ''Security''.
''Coffee Corner'' is not a help area and is usually visited by a Moderator for monitoring purposes.